Dirty talk is the use of exciting words during sex. Most of the time, people don’t dare to take the plunge for fear of looking ridiculous. There is no need to be embarrassed if you or your partner want to be verbally abused. Everyone has wants and desires and it is important to take them into account. The easiest way to do this is to be as direct as possible with your partner. You don’t have to go to great lengths to explain that you like to hear or say dirty words. The important thing is communication, because if from one day to the next without warning you say to your partner in the middle of the act “Who is the little slut to his daddy?”, perhaps he/she will be slightly surprised…
To establish a climate of desire and excitement, you can start by sending him/her a message during the day to let him/her know you want him/her: “I can’t wait for tonight…” “Later, I want to make you cum…” or “When you get home you lay down and wait for me naked on the bed!”. Then, once the fateful moment approaches, it is important to listen to your desires and your feelings as well as those of your partner. The more relaxed you are, the more playful and confident you can be. Although it should be natural, here are some phrases you can say to your partner:
- “Do with me what you want.”
- “I’ll come take care of you.”
- I love your taste.
- You are so exciting when you do…
- “I want you. Right now.”
Finally, a reminder that just because you don’t use dirty words like “little bitch” doesn’t mean it’s not dirty talk. Everyone talks the way they want to in agreement with their partner.